The Prayer for Us

June 9, 2025

In August 2022, Pew Research published a survey that put numbers to something many of us have felt in our bones: deep, growing division. According to the report, most Democrats and Republicans not only disagreed with each other—they actively disliked one another. Even more, they saw those across the aisle as immoral, dishonest, and unintelligent. 


By 2022, 63% of Democrats viewed Republicans as immoral—up from 35% in 2016. Among Republicans, that number hit 72%. 

It’s a bleak snapshot of where we are. 


However, this moment is not just a crisis. It’s an opportunity. A divine opportunity. 



Because in the middle of all this mess, Jesus is still praying. 


Why I'm Here

I need you to know something. John 17 is not just a passage to me, it’s a calling. Over 15 years ago, I was preaching through the Gospel of John, and when I hit chapter 17, something happened to me. 


I couldn’t shake it. 


Jesus’ words in that high priestly prayer disrupted my status quo. They caused what one pastor once called a “holy discontent”—an ache I couldn’t ignore. And I had to ask myself a sobering question: 


If Jesus is praying for oneness, then why am I not eagerly and consistently pursuing it? 


That one question became a fire in my bones. And it hasn’t gone out since. It’s why I planted a multiethnic church in Vicksburg, Mississippi. It’s why I walked away from the security of a federal job and joined Mission Mississippi two years ago in 2023. It’s why I keep waking up to walk this road—even when the walk feels long. 


The Final Prayer

In John 17, Jesus is just hours away from betrayal and crucifixion. His disciples are about to abandon Him. Judas is already setting the trap. Peter will soon deny Him. And yet… what’s on His mind? 


“I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word… that they may all be one…” (John 17:20–21) 


He’s praying for us


Not for our comfort. Not for our chariots. Not for bigger barns or better buildings. 


He’s praying for our oneness



Think about that. With all He could have prayed in His final hours—He prays that we would be one. 


Unity's Foundation

Our oneness isn’t built on cultural affinity, political agreement, or even personal chemistry. It’s built on something stronger: the Word. 


“For those who will believe in me through their word...” (v. 20) 


That word is the Gospel, the greatest bind in the universe. More binding than our race. More binding than our ideologies. More binding than our hometowns, schools, or social clubs. If we are in Christ, then we are in this together. 


And if we’re not pursuing unity, then we must ask: are we truly anchored in the Gospel? 


Unity’s Purpose 

“...so that the world may believe you have sent me.” (v. 21) 


This isn’t just about harmony in the pews. This is about the credibility of our witness to the world. 


Jesus doesn’t say, “they’ll know me by your preaching” or “by your Facebook or Instagram posts.” He says they’ll know Him by our oneness



When we’re divided, we don’t just send mixed messages. We send the wrong message altogether. If oneness is one of the primary ways that the world sees Jesus has come, then our division unintentionally screams falsely and loudly that He hasn’t. 


Unity’s Appearance

Jesus didn’t pray for vague, feel-good unity. He prayed for something bold: that we would be one as He and the Father are one


That kind of unity shows up in at least three ways: 

  • Unity in Message – Jesus said, “I speak only what the Father tells me.” (John 12:49) So should we. And what binds us isn’t our hottest takes, it’s the Gospel. 
  • Unity in Purpose – Jesus was on mission. So are we. When we align with His mission to redeem and reconcile, unity becomes possible, even natural. 
  • Unity in Diversity – The Trinity is not uniform. The Father, Son, and Spirit are distinct, yet gloriously united. That’s a model for the church: different tribes, tongues, and traditions singing one song. 


Let’s be clear: unity is not sameness. It’s not about erasing our uniqueness. It’s about bringing our distinctiveness under the Lordship of Christ. 


Unity’s Fuel

“The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one…” (John 17: 22) 


Jesus doesn’t just tell us to be one. He gives us the power to be one. 


The concept of Glory takes on many different forms throughout the Scriptures. We see it when Moses cries, “Show me your glory!” (Exodus 33:18-19) as the manifested presence and goodness of God. We see it at the wedding in Cana, where Jesus turns water into wine as the raw creative power of God to make something from nothing. However, in the life of Jesus, we see glory most clearly in His death and resurrection. It is the moment when Jesus lays down His life in love leading to resurrection that is the moment He is most GLORIFIED! 


So, what fuels our unity? 


It’s the daily, Spirit-empowered decision to lay down our rights, our opinions, our comforts—for the sake of another. The Glory Christ has given us is the power to produce life from our lives of sacrifice. 


The Glory Christ has given us is the power to lay down our lives even when we don’t feel like it because the Lord has empowered us to do it. 



That’s what glory looks like. That’s what oneness demands. 


Three Practical Exchanges for a Divided World

So, what does this mean for us, practically? 


Let me offer three exchanges we need to make if we want to live out Jesus’ prayer: 


1. Exchange the Internet for Dinner Tables 


We’re spending hours listening to people we’ll never meet while neglecting the people right next to us. Want deeper unity? Sit down. Break bread. Have real conversations with real people. 


2. Exchange Partisanship for Friendships 


We’re being conditioned to “otherize” people who think differently than us. But proximity changes perception. Befriend someone across the aisle—and listen. It might just change everything. 


3. Exchange Binaries for Image Bearers 



The world keeps pushing us into neat little boxes: red or blue, black or white, urban or rural. But the Gospel calls us to see people as God sees them—not as categories, but as image bearers. 


Jesus Prayed It - So Let's Pursue It

Some days, this pursuit feels long. 


Years ago, my wife and I were on a business trip in Las Vegas (I know everyone calls trips to Vegas business trips, but seriously it was). We decided to walk to dinner one evening and stepping outside of our hotel onto the Vegas Strip, we could see, among the colossal buildings, our destination for dinner! So, we began walking towards it, but no matter how long we walked it felt like we were making no ground on the journey. The closer we got, the further it looked. The journey of unity and reconciliation often feels like that walk down the Las Vegas Strip on a dry and humid evening. You deal with division in your church, exhaustion in your efforts, frustration in the journey—and you wonder, “Are we even getting closer?” 


But here’s the hope I carry in my soul: 
If Jesus prayed for it, I know we’ll see it. 


There is not a single prayer Jesus ever prayed that the Father did not answer. So, if Jesus prayed for oneness, we can pursue it with confidence. It will happen. COMPLETELY and FULLY! 


Maybe not fully in our lifetime. But if we keep walking—if we keep laying down our lives, loving one another, sacrificing, forgiving, and returning to the Gospel again and again—we will see glimpses. And those glimpses will contribute towards the completed picture testifying to the world: Jesus has come. 



So, let’s keep walking, let’s keep pursuing. Not because the road is easy—but because the vision is clear. Jesus prayed for it. And if He did, then we can trust by God’s grace, we’re going to get there. 


By CJ Rhodes February 13, 2025
My first job after graduating from divinity school was with Mission Mississippi. I came to the ministry in 2009, which was a season of transition in this country and for the organization. Frankly, what was happening in national politics pulled back the veneer of racial tensions that still permeated the state then. People who worshipped, worked, and even played together were balkanized in ways that disclosed how much more work needed to be done to reconcile people who claimed to be reconciled to God. Fourteen years later, I serve as the chair of the board of directors. I can say that as much as things have changed for the better since 2009, there are ways in which racial tensions in this state are actually worse now in metropolitan Jackson and in enclaves throughout Mississippi. Thirty years ago, this ministry began to meet a need: racism and de facto racial segregation were and still are impediments to evangelism. How can a divided church witness to Christ’s love for lost people if the found folks cannot get along? That was the question then, and it remains a relevant one in 2023. Thirty years later, Mission Mississippi continues to see the need for this reconciling work because increasing numbers of people doubt that the gospel has any power to change lives and the enduring issues that plague our communities. I like to say that Mission Mississippi must serve as an embassy of the kingdom of God. “We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.” (2 Corinthians 5:20 NIV) We must see our ministry much like a diplomatic mission. We must commend the gospel in hostile territory where the conflict is hot. Younger generations are crying out for this. Millennials (like me) and Gen Zers believe that the gospel speaks holistically to the human condition; it is good news in the midst of bad news and even falsehoods. But our divisions blur this reality for many Mississippians who know how complicit the church has been in what ails us. Diplomats help conflicting parties see better. A few years ago, I decided it was time to get glasses. I’m nearsighted, which means objects further away are blurry to me. With my glasses, though, I can see clearer and make out important details on the horizon. At its best, Mission Mississippi is like a pair of corrective lenses. The gospel’s themes of love, mercy, justice, and salvation are blurry objects in the distance for people closer to hate, malice, injustice, and hopelessness. Our ministry can help them see clearer and further, so that “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith,” we can have a better vision of Mississippi where Christians live out the grace of the gospel unhindered by racism, racial strife, racial prejudice, racial hatred, and racial division throughout Mississippi and the world. Dr. CJ Rhodes, serves as the chairman of the Mission Mississippi Board of Directors, is pastor of Mt. Helm Baptist Church in Jackson, MS, and director of the Hiram Rhodes Revels Institute for Ethical Leadership at Alcorn State University.
By Sherri Tynes February 13, 2025
There are SO many reasons to love Jesus. One that always brings a smile is how He enjoyed parties. We know from Scripture that the first recorded miracle took place at a wedding reception. He was there as a guest, but as an obedient son, the Son handled a rather unusual request from his mother. And because of that, the celebration continued without any interruptions. In October of 1993, I began my journey with Mission Mississippi (MM). This year we celebrate our 30th year of ministry. My first introduction was at a 3-day rally held at Memorial Stadium in Jackson. I watched in awe as over 100 preachers and priests carried a cross over 100 yards down the field. The voices of an interdenominational, multi-ethnic choir were heard throughout the stadium. Then, I listened as Pat Morley and Tom Skinner spoke of their friendship and deep love for one another – all because Christ had led them to cross barriers of color and recognize the Holy Spirit living within each of them. Would anything result from this rally – which asked us to look within and consider how we, too, might begin to cross some of our very own barriers – of denominational and racial differences? My next chapter began in April of 1997. A staff member from my home church asked my Sunday School class to choose a Thursday to attend a Prayer Breakfast which was to be hosted by a local church, but led by the MM ministry. Three of us from the class attended a breakfast at Briarwood Presbyterian Church. The night before, a dear friend’s son had committed suicide and I was going to see her later that morning. I SO felt the need for prayer. When we broke into small groups to pray, a Black brother prayed the most comforting and encouraging prayer for me. Two months later, I attended a MM Prayer Breakfast my church hosted. And, after that, I was “all in.” So, what difference have these 26+ years made in my life? Well, there was Willie Bell, whom I met at Christ the King Catholic Church, while we were attending a Prayer Breakfast there. When I first heard her pray, I was moved by her words and how well she and God seemed to know one another. Early on, MM organized events called “Two and Two Together.” Area restaurants gave a 22% discount for all patrons who visited with someone different from themselves. Since Willie Bell and I were “different colors,” we decided we would participate together. We shared meals and prayers for many years after that. We became friends. Later, larger groups shared meals together. We participated in ministry projects, like wrapping presents at Christmastime at the mall. Just like Jesus, we enjoyed our times of fellowship. They were sweet. When you have prayed together, that lays a wonderful foundation for growing a beautiful friendship. There have been numerous friends I’ve made throughout this journey. There was Joel, who often began his prayers by saying, “Thank you, God, for waking me up this morning and touching me with your fingers of love.” I learned valuable lessons from Joel’s sweet and humble spirit, his dependability, his love for all things “MM.” He kept “at it,” until he was 91 and moved to Heaven! Some people I would see yearly when their church hosted a breakfast. Mary, from St. Richard’s Catholic Church, wasn’t used to praying aloud with others, but the second time we visited her church, she decided to “give it a try.” From then on, she was eager to pray with those in her small group during our prayer time. Had there not been a MM organization, I would never have met Willie Bell, Joel and Mary. Oh, I will see them again in Heaven (because these three have already “relocated” there), but I would have missed the pleasure of knowing them on “this side.” I was privileged to know the three previous directors/presidents of MM – first, Jarvis Ward, then Dr. Dolphus Weary and most recently Bro. Neddie Winters. I celebrate these three leaders and thank the Father for each of them. Now, we celebrate our newest leader, President Brian Crawford, who officially joined us in April. What has all this meant to me? It has helped me recognize how big my God is and how all-encompassing His love is for everyone. I’ve realized the importance of living reconciled NOW, not just waiting for Heaven where everything is perfect and all problems have been resolved. No, God had it in mind for us to work on relationships on “this side.” I still have miles to go, but my life has been so much richer and so very blessed by journeying with all these precious brothers and sisters in Christ whom I wouldn’t have met otherwise. MM made this all possible. This was not man’s idea, this was God’s idea. I am beyond grateful that it was HIS idea for me to participate. To “live reconciled,” we must first be reconciled to God through Jesus Christ, then we can work on our relationships with one another. And, it’s not a cake walk. It takes intentionality and commitment. It takes the Holy Spirit working in us to help us see people the way God sees people. My journey with MM has enlarged my understanding of God in ways I would have never imagined. And my life has been blessed in ways I would have never dreamed. I am so thankful to HIM and to MM. What now? Come and join us on this journey. Come celebrate with us! “Living Reconciled” truly is the ONLY way to really live!